Women

God’s wonderful creation “Women”. Right from the birth girl is a face of  GOD called Lakshmi. Then she get married to a man and then for her her husband is her GOD. In total we all become GOD in one or other way, just kidding.

I was in hospital for my sister’s father-in-law at about 3:00 AM and I saw a women, in fact newlywed women sitting just besides a man. I had a closer look and it was her husband, lying on the stretcher. Suddenly I saw one more lady of mid age just sleeping besides her husband’s stretcher. I don’t know from where a thought came to mind what if something happen to my wife just after an getting “arrange” marriage when you don’t know the girl properly. Will I be sitting beside her like this only, will I be able to make my mind and do everything for her just like that women or girl is doing for her husband. Seriously I was blank, no thought , no  ideas nothing. My mind was totally silent. Then i thought what am I? Why I feel proud to be a man? I am just imagining the condition even then I don’t have answers, what if something seriously happen to my wife. And it’s question for all the  guys, because we are suppose to be her protector, she left her home just for us going to live with us after spending 23-24 years with her parents. Why I don’t have answer for this situation. Just because i was actually seeing the situation and able to imagine the actual scenario over there. Still no answers in my mind. Just one thought how great is women. From where she got that strong heart, she is actually much more stronger than us in practical life. I am not saying all guys are like this because my cousin only had done so much for her newlywed wife, just after their honeymoon period she got sick and minor food poisoning becomes very serious that could have taken her life. But my brother stays calm and did everything for her that he could do at that time. After that very incident I feel great for my brother.

But in most cases women never left her husband but many husband’s do. Why we are so mean. For women we are her GOD, her protector. While getting married we take seven oath with seven circles around fire. But they mean nothing for more of the guys. They do just because it’s tradition.

Apart from this hospital incident, for current generation a women is their sex toy. They play with a girl and left her for crying. Instead of admiring their beauty we start enjoying with them. I don’t know if GOD will ever protect them. Guys thinking is like girls are emotional fool but actually they are so strong in emotions that they can handle anything. What ever happen to them they never complain about it. They start moulding them self according to the situation. For every successful man there is a woman. This is actually true because if you can’t respect women then you will land up nowhere in your life. Whether that women is your wife, sister, daughter or mother.

Women pretend herself be so brittle and delicate but actually they are not. They start crying easily but that doesn’t mean she is week. I know we say even GOD don’t understand women but one thing I can be sure of that Women is a most beautiful and wonderful creation of GOD.

Guy who know this will appreciate my feelings and who don’t then life will teach them.